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but what i really hate rn is some people in the fandom (specifically malia fans i mean lbr) are acting like lydia never had any significance to the show at all???? like they're acting as if she's just a fucking banshee that popped out of nowhere and that pisses me the fuck off because lydia has been there since 1x01??? and i could not give a fuck about the desert wolf and i was so sure kate was going to die in the finale smh if she comes back i will rage i was over that plotline even before 4x01




literally same. i love how they’re like ‘lydia’s a slut!!!!!!!1 she doesn’t care about stiles!!!!!!!!!!’

first off, no, enjoying sex and having a lot of it doesn’t make you a slut. switching your boyfriends/lovers doesn’t make you a slut either. but i guess most stalia and malia fans are 13 year olds still stuck in that false belief that ‘one man for life!!!!!!!!!!!11’ which is why stalia is the perfect relationship to project on themselves; malia who wants her ‘mate 4 life’ (according to shelley, that is) and stiles who was completely and absolutely virginal before that. the dream guy for girls who want ‘the one for life’. you know they say your otp is what you wish for in a relationship? there’s probably more truth in that than we think (at least it’s true for me)

second, they still seem to dwell on the fact that lydia used to ignore and disrespect stiles in season 1. yeah, she was a social climber and dumbed herself down to be popular, can we now please get over that? lydia has developed a lot since s1, she cares about the pack more than malia does and ever will. she risked her life on more than one occasion. she fucking stood up against nogitsune, where was malia during all that? not in eichen house, that’s for sure. and in s4, she went against a berserker with a baseball bat in order to save her friends. lydia martin cares a whole fucking lot. especially about stiles.

don’t even get me started about the whole desert wolf shit, i’m still mad it looks like malia is getting a whole season dedicated to her

Hi!! How are you?? I just read this answer and I think its a little unfair :/

First off, I love Lydia and I know at least 50 tumblr users here who ship Stalia with all their heart but still love Lydia. You’re right, she has developed a lot since s1!!! I kinda like to think that if S4 Lydia met up with S1 Lydia, she would totally slap old Lydia and say "STOP THINKING YOU’RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH, YOU ARE!!!" :P

And on that note, I really don’t like how you guys have just started stone-walling Stalia shippers because you’ve got a stereotype in your head that they’re 13 year olds still stuck in their belief that “one man for life!!!111” Helloooo? We’re watching the same show, we love almost all the same main characters and I’m sure we’d get on very nicely if we tried. Same is with Draeden shippers who get a LOT of hate from Sterek. Well, I ship them all: Stalia, Stydia, Sterek, Scallison (I’m still in denial), Sterica, Stora, Draeden, Scira, Sciles, Scisaac, Stisaac, Stackson, Scackson, Jydia, Pydia, and hell, if Teen Wolf makes “Stiles and a lump of cheese” canon, I’m all up for it!!! :P Its a little crazy following all those ships, but that’s why we do it, right??

And not to stereotype myself or anything but most of the Stydia shippers I’ve talked to just want Lydia to be with Stiles, but wasn’t a large part of the fandom complaining throughout season 1 and 2 that Lydia has no arc other than a “love-interest” and that she needs to get some more work? And now, that she has an amazing arc to work with; her new bravery, her love for her friends, her maturity, her learning about banshees and trying to help her friends, everyone’s started complaining again and saying "bring on the love interest arc!!!"

Lydia did have a significant role this season, even though her on-screen time wasn’t much. But when it was, she blew us away!!! Look at that scene in “Weaponized” when she tried to apologize to Meredith. That was one of my favorites!!! And as for you guys being mad that “Malia has an entire season dedicated to her”, that’s kind of not true, because her development was par with all the other main characters. And even if it is, isn’t that fair? I mean look at all the seasons and the characters they’ve spent developing:

S1: Scott, Allison, Derek

S2: Allison, Jackson, Lydia

S3a: Lydia, Derek, Scott

S3b: Stiles, Kira, Lydia

In the previous seasons, all the mains have had a chance to gain some major development. Isn’t it high time that Malia gains some too?

And if I can say so, I think Anti-Malia fans are being really hypocritical because the only main reason you hate her is because she’s with Stiles. So in the end, its only a battle for Stiles, and all you’re doing is stone-walling a character who you could like if you actually saw past the hate. And you guys talking about how the Stalia shipper are against Lydia, aren;t you attacking Malia to begin with. It’s like you’re bombing us and then getting angry when we bomb back to defend ourselves.

Just to clear things up, I’m NOT Anti-Lydia, this is NOT a rant to degrade Stydia or Sterek, I’m just trying to clear things up because the amount of drama in the fandom is really driving potential fans away….

Okay, Bye :)

i said most, not all stalia fans. i know that there are stalia fans who ship stydia as well and love lydia, but there are also the immature ones trying to shame lydia for having a sex life. that’s a fact. i’ve been to a lot of pro-malia blogs and each of them fit that pattern.

it’s cool that you ship all those pairings, but it would be even cooler if you guys understood that we don’t hate malia because of stiles. 

i can’t speak for everyone ofc, but most of us hate her because her character is incoherent and very badly written, sorry to break it to you. i can’t even count the plot holes. and that’s a thing that really bothers me, and stalia is kind of the final straw. she annoys me. her face annoys me. you can hate a female character without it having to do with a male character.

please get a tattoo of that or something because i’m sick of stalia fans trying to tell me why i hate malia. stalia does play a part in that, but even if it wasn’t canon, her behavior would still annoy me.

see, the difference is that lydia is an amazingly written and developed character, calling her a slut is absolutely dumb and unjustified, whereas malia hasn’t done anything eversince she showed up, except being a love interest. she is supposed to be a feral problematic character but they made a joke out of it. ofc lydia has been stiles’ love interest since season 1, but it was an onesided love that gradually developed from an unreachable crush into close friendship. lydia and stiles actually function without humping each other 24/7.

if you take stalia away, what’s left of malia? i bet my ass she wouldn’t be integrated in the pack, her arc would be even more boring because jeff built her up on stalia. peter would have manipulated her into being his tool in 0.2 seconds and she would have had 85% less screen time.

lydia has proven in season 4 that she can get shit done without stiles. malia doesn’t function without him as a character, that one episode she was without him peter was already about to wrap her around his finger.

she’s a weakly written character with a shady backstory thrown at stiles for no reason whatsoever.

when i talked about malia getting a season dedicated to her, i was talking about season 5. it’s pretty obvious the plot is gonna revolve around the desert wolf. so my guess is it’s gonna be malia-centric. season 4 was supposed to be lydia-centric, but come on, this season was a fucking joke. we got one, one single episode that was about lydia’s family. that’s it.

yes, i’m mad about that. yes, i do think lydia deserves a season dedicated to herself a thousand times more than malia does.

sorry if i came off rude, just please never tell me i ‘could like malia’ if i saw past the hate, because no. i can’t like her because jeff fucked her up. there was potential to make her a good character, but her entire existence revolves about hopping on stiles’ dick. the hale storyline isn’t even her own, it’s obvious she’s just an emergency solution for jackson.

i’m just sitting here patiently waiting for shelley’s wish to leave the show —- i’m sorry, this is not supposed to be against her, but i can’t enjoy teen wolf with malia on it.

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